How To Have The Best Christmas Ever

I love Christmas: any excuse for a get together; not to mention that I’m seriously into the concept of peace on earth and goodwill to all mankind, but we have to face the fact for some it’s a sad lonely time with painful memories. So, first thing to do is find ways of laying the ghosts of Christmas past to rest if we have them. Our past doesn’t determine our future unless we let it. For a meaningful advent help others; instead of buying expensive presents and barraging the digestive system volunteer, perhaps give to a worthy cause.

For many it’s a frantic rush to finish work and do everything that needs doing. Plan ahead to manage the pressure because when it’s off many get colds, flu and bugs. Everything’s more enjoyable when we’re healthy so make time to be mentally and physically as healthy as we can.

Don’t overspend- keep it real. There’s huge hype around Christmas whipped up by the brilliant brains of advertising. Avoid roller coaster spending. Plan to avoid the after- Christmas blues by having things to do and some cash left over for January and February.

Be thankful for the many people who work at Christmas. A friend in emergency services told me in the last eight years they’ve only spent one Christmas at home with their partner. I looked shocked, but they said ‘Never mind it went quite quickly’.

Find, reinforce and share the treasured and helpful rituals, ditch the unhelpful ones and be flexible. Recently spoke to a lady whose daughters in their 20’s come home for Christmas and they love waking up on Christmas morning listening to Pinky and Perky music because it has so many treasured memories (well it takes all sorts). Rituals might not be the same for everyone, an element of consensus and compromise may be required.

Respect other people’s space. New families may feel the need to break with tradition and be at home. For many of us there’ll be a family house cramming competition, which can be difficult for adolescents sleeping in an unusual place. So it might be an idea to create a chill zone or safe haven eg. sitting on the stairs or a corner where people can go for a bit of quiet time. Celebrate and tolerate differences. For many Christmas is a religious festival of great significance, for many it’s not. I have Muslim, Buddhist and Sikh friends who like Christmas and demonstrate a true generosity of spirit.

If there’s a bit of family tension and someone’s getting up your nose don’t rise, especially after Christmas beverages which may make us think we’re cleverer and more right than usual. ‘Perhaps say to ourselves ‘I wish I didn’t mind and I won’t let it get to me’. Rather than ‘Yer talking shite and I’m gonna to put you right.’

If someone’s being abusive, avoid becoming a victim. Seek help – it’s a sign of strength not weakness.

Plan to do fun things, walk, bike ride, play cards, board games, do stuff and accept it’s different these days as most teenagers will probably be happiest playing with their most recent video game or on their phone. It’s a fine balance.

Everyone should help out with the cooking and chores, unless of course there’s someone who really loves cooking. Don’t feel compelled to do turkey and all the trimmings, there are some great alternatives and I’m actually really surprised how many people I know who are getting fast food delivered!

Make time to connect with people, speak with family and friends – share the love

How do we solve our problems in life? It’s through asking constructive questions; which could be ‘What can I do to make it the best Christmas ever without overspending?’ ‘What can I do to help my family and friends have the best Christmas ever?’ We get back what we give out, it’s important to spread sunshine and kindness and of course to smile (but not in a creepy way) so all that remains is for me to thank you for reading my blog and I wish you a happy, healthy and wonderful Christmas and of course peace on earth and goodwill towards all mankind.

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Running for non-runners….give it a go

August 28, 2020

Running for non-runners So why bother to run? Forget any unpleasant past experiences – it’s not a race it’s a state of being. Give it a go – you’ll surprise yourself. Just get out and jog. Physical rewards of running helps to build strong bones, as it is a weight bearing exercise strengthen muscles improve cardiovascular fitness and reduces risk of dying from cardiovascular disease – running reduces our resting heart rate so heart doesn’t have to work so hard burn plenty of kilojoules helps maintain a healthy weight -‘aerobic exercise’ means any physical activity that produces energy by combining oxygen with blood glucose or body fat Mental and psychological rewards of running Brain produces feel-good chemicals, endorphins and endocannabinoids which make us feel exhilarated and happy high Improves self esteem Can connect us with other people who run – builds understanding, friendship and fellowship You can do it on your own anywhere and it doesn’t cost anything Time efficient – you can go out for as long or as short as you want 10 minutes upwards! It can reset the psychological trip switch and running allows us to process stuff Can improve your memory – boosts the hippocampus and may counteract Alzheimer’s symptoms Reflexes kick in you don’t need training – just do it How to Start: What you need to know Be gentle on yourself don’t set unrealistic goals build up gradually – take your time Remember ‘the road is long with many a winding turn’- look after yourself Take a long-term view – I want to run ultras in my eighties so I’m not going to worry about times now Enjoy it don’t make it a chore Be thankful you can run Nearly everyone never runs as fast as they want to so don’t chase the dragon Don’t spend a lot on kit unless you’re an elite athlete (supermarket stuff is fine) Buy longish shorts to avoid chaffing Get your kit ready and go – Don’t think about 45 minutes or more my mindset is I’ll run to the end of the road and see how I feel Form a support group of friends who’ll encourage and support if need be. Don’t involve the wider world Chris moon says: I don’t want to run faster than anyone else I just want to run faster than myself Seek inspiration and set goals – here’s some: https://www.thisgirlcan.co.uk/

Step by Step…The Heat is On #Badwater135

July 15, 2019

At 8pm (Pacific Daylight Time) today I am embarking on the world’s toughest footrace #Badwater135. The Badwater Death Valley Ultra 135 mile “fun run’ is in the hottest p lace on earth at the hottest time of year. It has to be completed in under 48 hours. I’m one of the luckiest people to be alive you’re likely to meet. Blown up in a remote part of Africa in 1995 clearing landmines for the charity HALO Trust I lived to tell the tale. I have never considered myself a victim as I chose to be there. By challenging my limits I can continue to support the fabulous work of the Scottish based HALO Trust saving life and limb around the planet. Great News! Every pound raised will be matched by an anonymous donor so donations will be doubled. Sponsor me the price of a pint of beer (or more if you wish). Please forward and share this link www.halotrust.org/chrismoon and click here to donate if you can. Thank you for your support. Keep on keeping on. #Badwater135 Adventurecorps Badwater Race

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